You’re suspicious!
Your spouse:
- Has periods of unexplained absences. Check.
- Takes more care with their appearance. Check.
- Spends lots of time on their phone. Check.
- Is distant and secretive. Check.
- Can’t be reached. Check.
- Is vague about plans. Check.
Their changed behavior has raised a BIG question! IS YOUR SPOUSE CHEATING ON YOU? If you’re asking yourself the question, then chances are, you want the answer!
But how can you find out the truth? You could hire a private investigator, like those listed at the Los Angeles PI practice, or you could save your money and do your own sleuthing!
We’ve done our research, so read on for 14 Ways to Spy on a Cheating Spouse!
How to Catch a Cheater: Watch How They Behave with Their Phone
Have you ever wondered how anyone ever managed to have an affair before cell phones?
The advancing digital world has made communication more accessible than ever before, and e-bills keep our cell phone use hidden from prying eyes in private email accounts.
If you think your spouse might be cheating on you, observe their behavior with their phone. Has it changed? Are they sneaky with their cell phone, overprotective of their mobile? Are they guarding their screen? Do they never part with it for a moment, even if they’re using the bathroom? Are they receiving more calls or messages than usual?
There may be a perfectly genuine reason for their changed behavior in the short term, but this is an excellent place to start: if it continues, you might want to investigate further.
How to Catch a Cheater: Use a SpyBubble Spyware App
Once you’ve established that their cell phone use is suspicious, you’ll want to see what your other half is doing on it. This is where spyware software really comes into its own!
The SpyBubblePro app has been developed for instant device monitoring and is compatible with all Android OS 4+, and iOS devices. It is the perfect spyware for tracking a cheating partner.
Secretly install the SpyBubblePro onto your partner’s phone, link your online account, and you will have immediate access in real-time to all of their device activity.
Features of the app include tracking all the most popular social media accounts; all incoming and outgoing text messages, including SMS, MMS, and WhatsApp; online browsing searches, history, and favorites; all contact lists and phone calls; installed applications, and GPS location tracking. Even previously deleted information, such as messages and contact lists, can be retrieved!
How to Catch a Cheater: Touch ID
You will need to gain access before adding spyware to the target phone. Your cheating partner may have updated their cell phone security to keep their secrets safe. Touch ID is a fingerprint (or similar) recognition security and can only be bypassed with the owner’s unique fingerprints, which they’ve previously installed in the system. If you can ‘borrow’ the target phone under some fictitious pretext, it should take only moments to add and save your own prints, giving you permanent access to its’ contents.
How to Catch a Cheater: Track Their Movements with GEOfinder
“I’m meeting a friend for coffee,” your partner says. “I’ll be in an hour.” Do you believe them? How do you know that’s where they are really going?
Use GEOfinder to trace a cell phone in minutes and uncover the truth.
GEOfinder is an online site that enables you to discreetly track the exact location of any cell phone, on any network, anywhere in the world in minutes. There is no need to access your spouse’s phone or download any software. Simply key in the telephone number, pay a small fee for access, and wait for the results.
But what if they don’t have their cell phone with them? Or park up and leave the phone in the car? No problem. Portable or hardwired GPS trackers are available for every scenario.
Alternatively, you can track their location on apps, provided location sharing is turned on.
How to Catch a Cheater: The Google Chrome Password Hack
If your partner is cheating, then it’s likely that they won’t want to share their passwords. Passwords will be closely guarded secrets. However, if they are users of Google Chrome, and you can access their main computer on some believable pretext, then it is possible to hack ALL of their stored passwords.
- Access their account with their username and password.
- Click on the user’s icon in the top right-hand corner of the page (this may be a photo or a single initial).
- Click on the key symbol, revealing a comprehensive list of all sites visited and passwords used. Passwords show as *******.
- Hover the cursor over the eye symbol, and the passwords will be revealed.
Take a picture with your phone, and you will have a permanent record of all your cheater’s passwords!
How to Catch a Cheater: Download Keyloggers Like uMobix
Keylogger technology will record every keystroke the user types – and every key touched on your cheating partner’s device – without their consent or knowledge. It is perfect for keeping track of critical information about your target’s online activities, such as usernames and passwords, messages, and browsing history. The best keyloggers should be easy to install, simple to use, and most importantly, undetectable!
uMobix is one such keylogging app. Watch this video for instructions on how to install and use the uMobix app.
How to Catch a Cheater: Keyword Log
Keylogger technology will identify suspicious keywords a cheating spouse might use on a device, whether apps, websites, searches, or messages.
Is there a particular name that keeps coming up? Are there regular locations or meeting places that appear in messages?
Make a note, write them down, and log them.
How to Catch a Cheater: Check Text Messages, Other Messaging Apps, and More
Most modern affairs rely heavily on cell phone communications. Our phones are full of text messaging and email apps, social media accounts, calendars, shopping and banking apps, and more! We run our lives from these little electronic devices, and to the observant eye, they can reveal a vast amount of information about us, including what we do, who we see, what we say – and how we behave!
Watch out for secret little smiles when they read a new message. Is there a different alert sound for a particular person? Are there gaps in the scripts where messages have been deleted?
If you have access to your partner’s phone, using either spyware software or otherwise, then spend some time scrolling through its content with an educated eye.
But, a word of caution: this is an invasion of a person’s private life, and you may not like what you find!
How to Catch a Cheater: Look for Hidden Audio or Photo Files
You’ll know all about hiding files and apps if you’ve successfully installed a spyware app on your spouse’s phone.
Most phone systems can create straightforward ‘hide’ or ‘make private’ files to store anything you wouldn’t want prying eyes to see; in a cheater’s case, perhaps a nude picture or two, or a sexy video. Apps are also available that will create a secure folder on the home screen, for example, Keepsafe, GalleryVault, or Folder Lock.
Spyware will assist in detecting hidden files, but once you have found them, it’s up to you what you do with the information!
How to Catch a Cheater: Check Bank Statements
Bank statements reveal a wealth of naughty information if it’s there, but cheaters are unlikely to dip into their joint account for funds for fear of awkward questions, and gone are the days of paper statements that came through the post.
Look out for opportunities to view their accounts online, either on the computer or cell phone. Access to passwords will make this easier but may not be immediately available.
Unexplained cash withdrawals and their locations, purchases made at certain stores, and payments for overnight stays will be clues to a secret life you knew nothing about.
How to Catch a Cheater: Check Their Trash Folder
A cheating husband, wife, or partner will make every effort to cover their tracks, which, unless they’re particularly careless, will mean deleting messages, pictures, emails, and other visual evidence they certainly won’t want you to see. However, they may not be quite so careful with housekeeping their email trash, draft folders, or mobile recycle bins!
Is there a new name that you don’t recognize or someone that pops up more regularly than is usual? Look out for slightly ‘off’ names or aliases.
And, while you’re here, why not have a quick peek at their google calendar too!
If installed, spyware will already be scanning and updating you regularly on all email and messaging accounts and contacts, including those already deleted.
How to Catch a Cheater: Check the Cloud
Your cell phone cloud is basically a secure extra storage space for your phone’s data, including photos, files, videos, etc. A certain amount is provided free with the phone, but you can pay extra to add more storage.
Cloud storage provides ‘backup’ to important data, the ability to save favorite files, and enables access to them online from anywhere using a private, password-protected account.
Accessing and monitoring the cloud could potentially provide a wealth of incriminating information on a cheater, which would otherwise be hidden from view on the phone’s home screen.
How to Catch a Cheater: Use Hidden Cameras or Voice Recorders
Police officers wear bodycams, drivers use dashcams, and even sportspeople use action cams! Cameras and voice recorders have revolutionized our ability to playback our lives. Gone are the big, unwieldy cameras and voice recorders of the past. Now, we all have them on our phones; they are easy to use, transportable – and small enough to remain hidden and undetected! Use them to monitor your partner’s activity when you’re not around. It may be as innocent as reading a book or watching a film!
How to Catch a Cheater: Create a Fake Profile
Get up close and personal with your cheating spouse with a fake profile. Use it to monitor their activities on dating apps and social media. If you’re feeling brave, send out a ‘friending’ invite or a couple of messages and start a conversation. See where it leads, and you may catch them red-handed, literally with their trousers down!
Conclusion
There are numerous ways to catch a cheater in the modern world that are readily available, easy to use, and within budget. So, why would anyone risk getting caught?
Still, research from the Institute for Family Studies indicates that infidelity is as active as ever, assisted perhaps by communication advances in technology and the digital world. However, the exact figures for adultery are unknown due to the cloak of secrecy surrounding it.
Author and psychotherapist Esther Perel is one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Featured in numerous podcasts and TedTalks, Esther Perel is also the author of two bestselling books, The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, and Mating in Captivity. Look, have a listen, and do your research.
If you suspect that your partner is cheating on you, be sure that you want to know for sure before investigating. Once revealed, there will inevitably be consequences to your relationship, your life, and those around you.
